Thursday, April 30, 2009

Feed my starving children!

[Before you begin to read, let me forewarn you, that this will be a lengthy post. But please do not go away without reading it in full. Thank you.]

Last evening was one evening I spent in the most useful and productive manner. I went to Feed my Starving Children. The notice for this came in a mail from Winkie's school. It looked like a wonderful service opportunity to share with my son, and I signed both of us up for it. Let me tell you how it panned out, in some detail.
" This is the true joy in life - being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; being thoroughly worn out before you are thrown on the scrap heap; being a force of nature instead of a feverish selfish little clod of ailments and grievances complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy. ~George Bernard Shaw
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All I knew before going was that it involved packing food to send to hungry children across the world. I had no other clue about the organisation, the statistics, its operations etc. Winkie was excited with something different happening and I was looking forward to volunteering. As soon as we walked in, we signed up on a sheet, and then put on our hair nets (for hygiene purposes) and entered the presentation room, where many chairs were lined up. The room was almost full, and we took our seats. Pretty soon, Winkie spotted one of his dearest friends from school, and this time it was a girl and I was pleasantly surprised. The two of them were super excited to see each other and I got friendly with her mother too. And then the presentation began.

It started with a video. I will not go to any length to describe it...you can watch it right here...




It was a good thing Winkie was sitting in my lap, for the tears wouldn't stop. The pain of watching those images exploded in my chest and I couldn't stand how much people had to suffer. The video served its purpose. In those few minutes, the disconnect with the outside world was bridged and I am sure each one of the 88 of us in that room would have been filled with a sense of meaning as to why we were there. I knew I couldn't wait to get started.

" Dare to reach out your hand into the darkness, to pull another hand into the light. ~Norman B. Rice
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We made our way to the washrooms next to have a thorough cleaning of our hands and then it was time to go into the packing room. At first, they asked for volunteers to label the packets, and me and Winkie went for that along with the his friend and her mom. This part was simple, as we had to simply stick on the food labels to each packet, that would then be filled up with the food. After about 1/2 an hour of doing this, we walked into the packing room to tap someone else to take our place, so we could have a go at the packing too. Someone switched places and we got to work. Each packet of food contains specific grams of chicken flavoured powder, dried veggies, dried soy, and rice. They all go into the packet, one after the other in that order. Each packet has the capacity to feed 6 starving children for one meal, or 6 meals for one child. One might wonder why other kinds of food are not being sent. We were told the reason for this. It turns out that a malnourished body cannot process the nutrients from many other kinds of food, and this worsens its condition. So, a panel of food scientists in Minnesota came up with this optimal mix of ingredients that could start the healing process in a child's body. You have seen in the video above, and what a visual difference it has made to baby Moses and many kids like him.

Here's a video now on what this packing process looks like...




So for the next hour and a half, this is what we did. Akhil spooned the chicken powder, his friend did the soy and veggies, I did the rice, while another boy held the bag for us, and the mom sealed the bags and put them into a box. The process was smooth and flowed effortlessly and without confusion from one task to the next, and the beauty of it was that we could see the finished work, sitting neatly in brown box after brown box, growing in a big stack in the middle of the warehouse, where it was being deposited.



When the clock struck 8 PM, we were asked to stop what we were doing and given step by step instructions on cleaning up. Again, I admired the professionalism that governed this organisation. In 20 minutes, we were all done, and the room was neat and tidy for the next group of packers who would come in the next morning. Right after this, we all trooped back into the warehouse, where all the kids placed a hand on the boxes that were packed, and the organiser led us through a beautiful prayer....thanking God for bringing together this bunch of people, who gave their time and efforts so joyously, asking Him to bless the food that would now make its way overseas, to protect it on its journey, and to bless the people who would partake in it, letting them know that there were many who cared and there was still hope left in the world. It was a beautiful prayer and I was in spiritual heaven during it. The picture above was taken hurriedly from my camera phone, and its not of good clarity, but it will give you an idea of it.


After this, we went back to the washroom to clean up and traipsed back to the presentation room where a little surprise awaited us. On the table were trays and trays of refreshment, spooned out into little cups with wooden spoons. And what do you think we had to eat? It was of the ingredients we had just packed....cooked in hot water, and made into a porridge. I tasted it, and it was quite bland and chewy, but pleasant enough. I thought that was a wonderful touch...where you eat the very food that those people will eat and know what it is like for them.


Thereafter, the organisers shared some statistics with us. That it takes only 17 cents to produce one single meal. That we had packed 41 boxes that night, and it was enough to feed about 25 children for 1 w.h.o.l.e y.e.a.r!!! There was a collective gasp in the room as we assimilated the momentousness of what we had just heard. The familiar prick of tears came to the eyes and many a hand could be seen dabbing away a wet spot. In a few moments, we would give full force to those tears, as we watched the Thank you video. Here it is...



After watching it, and during, I know that each one of us there would have felt the rising resolve within our hearts, that clenched will that promised that we would do more...we could do more and there was no more time to be wasted. I know my life was transformed again that evening, and as always, it could not have come at a better time than now, when the seeds of restlessness are taking fruit and leading me to seek for a new direction to focus me energies on. I knew I had to go back and speak to the organiser and find out when I could come in next, what more I could do, when...


I did speak to her, and she gave me a person to contact and I have sent him an email and I hope to have a response tomorrow which outlines what I have to do to help. Of course I can always help out with money and they need so much of it, because of the rising costs of getting the food to its destination. But my hands were itching to get right down to the actual task of direct toil. Another way to help out is advertising. They do not spend any money on advertising, because they focus all their costs on procuring and distributing the food. So they rely on word of mouth. And that is where I come in, with this post.


From time to time, you readers have told me that I inspire you, that I have given you much to think about, and that it has changed your perspective. Well, if that is indeed true, then it will have happened through this post as well. And reading it, you will be seized by the fervour to DO something, that itch in your hands to get down to some real work. I am not asking for a donation, though money is always a good thing to contribute, as it facilitates so many other things. What I am asking you for... is one little change in your life, that will make a difference. It could be saving up pennies in a jar and donating that collection to your nearest charity whose work you can be assured of. It can be giving up that one takeout meal at Panera bread with the salad and drink on the side, coming to 15 dollars. It could be resolving to be so mindful of the food that you eat, saying a prayer beforehand, asking for a blessing. It could be never throwing out overripe veggies from your fridge, because you couldn't plan it well in time. Or it could be something that requires slightly more of your time...like finding a service opportunity in your neighbourhood. Something that involves you directly aiding someone in pain, distress, hunger, illiteracy, abuse, rehabilitation, trauma, old age. Because there is nothing more powerful for the destruction of the ego, than to elevate yourself to the role of a true lover and a true giver. And it is so humbling and so important to look into the eyes of the person who receives your service. It becomes imperative for the soul to connect directly with the soul that needs the help. These are my feelings, and I write them plainly because it is a resolve to myself as well, to wake up and get moving. When I put this here, it gives you the natural right to ask me at any point in the future, if I have done right by my words....to hold me accountable. So think about it. Research. And then...come back and tell me, what is your one change.


Coming back....it was the most natural evening to be had. As we labelled packets, two moms in a nearby table talked casually about their plans for the summer. Kids talked about their day in school and what they were doing for the weekend. In the packing room, music blared from the radio, giving us a steady tempo for our work. From time to time, groups of families would shout out a chorus of cheer, which had surely been practiced before, and which showed that they were oldtimers at this place. The feeling of community and unity was so strong in the air, that you could have sliced through it with a knife. And that is what I loved so much about it. That something that gave all of us so much of fun and laughter and pleasure, gave so many other people hope and a way out of the gnawing hunger that wracked their bodies and spirits. That it was so easy to give, and took so little on our parts and gave us so much back, right then and there. It was instant gratification at its purest form! And in the process of feeding many hungry bodies for a day, a month, a year...I was also feeding my soul, for this lifetime.





23 comments:

Mamma mia! Me a mamma? said... Best Blogger Tips

OMG! Just how beautiful and soul-nourishing is this? I couldn't see the videos, but just reading through your post was enough to set me sobbing.

To honour your committment to spread the word, this post of yours is my post of the day.
http://mammamiameamamma.blogspot.com/2009/05/noble-cause-great-effort.html

Indyeah said... Best Blogger Tips

Thank you for this post
it did leave an impact...and yes I am motivated to do something...

sole said... Best Blogger Tips

Truly an inspiring and amazing post. Such a fulfilling task and I am sure it would send a message across to the many readers you have, like it did to me. Brilliant work Tara, you are such a pleasure to know!

Tharini said... Best Blogger Tips

MammaMIa : You couldn't see the videos, as in were you not able to view them? Or if I got it wrong, I hope you will view them when you can. They really send a powerful msg that no words can. Thank you for taking up my committment. :)

Tharini said... Best Blogger Tips

Indyeah : Do come back and tell me what it is. that is the part I want to hear! Thanks for reading. :)

Sole : What's your one thing thing then? :D

SBora said... Best Blogger Tips

it does feel great to get involved in volunteerism and community work...i am glad you had a fulfilling experience.

Thanks for leaving a commnet on my blog...am much better although will have to wait for the weather to cooperate before i can hang out with the kids in the yard. but thank you for your thoughtful comment.

Its our space said... Best Blogger Tips

I just send food regularly for the food bank donations and some such but never been part of something hands on like this. I will circulate this idea around at school before school ends.

Btw,how did Winkie react to the video of the suffering children ? I ask because there is major waterworks even at the slightest mention of such children . She is very sensitive and gets very very upset and cries for a long time. I don't know how to bring about an awareness in her in a psychologically safe way and drive home some perspective. A practical activity like this would help I guess.

Thanks for bringing this up

Anonymous said... Best Blogger Tips

Lovely post Tharini.

yesterday my husband forwarded an email about how poor children wait for food brought over by a good samaritan and how happy they after eating the left overs of the reataurant. he said it brought tears to his eyes.
But being moved to tears is useless

- so both of us resloved yesterday to do something and there I have this lovely post which only made my resolve stronger.
Hope it gets translated to good actions too....


Thank you
Sujatha Ramesh

Anonymous said... Best Blogger Tips

Hi Tharini,
I have been a regular but silent reader of your blog for a long time. I am totally touched by this blog and motivated to do something that I can.
I immedialtey started looking for opportunities in our city. I will keep you posted after I complete one.

Cantaloupes.Amma (CA) said... Best Blogger Tips

Excellent T !!
I absolutely believe that we need to give back to the world in whatever smallest way it is possible.
I also think that kids these days are not as appreciative of the luxuries they have ... most of them seem to have taken it granted. Doing some community service actually keeps them grounded.
Cantaloupe and I go to this place every sunday where kids chant some shlokas, do some yoga, parents take turns to narrate a simple story with a profound moral, some artwork is then done. But the best part is kids get to pack 75 lunches to homeless kids. We pack sandwiches, juice, chips and a fruit. Looking at the arrange brown bags gives so much satisfaction ... its hard to describe. My only regret is I haven't gone and helped out with the delivery.

Madhuri said... Best Blogger Tips

Dear Tharini,

At the risk of sounding clichéd, this was yet another thought provoking post from you. Thanks for sharing your experience with us. I read your post in the morning, but didn’t want to reply in a hurry. Got my work for the day done, did some thinking and this is my one thing – Never ever to waste food again E.V.E.R. I’m guilty of buying excesses, not properly storing and throwing it away after it can no longer be consumed. Today I’ve taken a F.I.R.M. resolve to be more mindful of the food I buy and how I store it. 17cents for a meal? Just wow, and here I am taking so many things for granted. There are definitely more ways I can make a change, but I want to start with baby steps and aim for better changes, and where else but home to start making a difference, right?

Madhuri

PS: And heck yeah I do read each day's thought. How can I miss God's handiwork in the form of your writing? You've inspired me in more ways than you can imagine!

Tharini said... Best Blogger Tips

SBora : I am glad you are feeling much better.

IoS : So glad. Let me know if something picks up at Mia's school from this. I am amazed that she is so sensitive. Its so sweet. He watched the video with interest and at times was very distracted because of his friend being there. One thing he thoroughly enjoyed was the thank you video. It made him smile. MIa sounds like a sweetheart!

Sujatha : Was hoping to see your comment. :) You are right...tears alone are of no use, if a bleeding heart does not lead to a helping hand. But to make the transformation, it takes a lot of Grace (His) and grit(ours). Good luck to you and come back and tell me how it is going.

Dear Anon...please may I not have a name of some sort by which to identify you the next time? I wish you luck in your search. May it yield the perfect thing for your hand and heart!

CA : This is wonderful. Wonderful. God bless you, and keep checking on me to see whether I continue to be proactive on this front.

Madhuri...the risk of sounding cliched was wiped out by the very admission that it might be so. :))

I echo and feel your one thing 100%. I wrote that wastage of food in the fridge stuff, because that is exactly what I do too, and R chides me no end for this gross sin. It is going to be a good challenge to change this habit from within, because it in fact, stems from laziness. I wish you luck in these baby steps, which will in fact be a giant leap. God bless you.

VG said... Best Blogger Tips

hey tharini...this post flooded me with tears..i am all for your comments when u said that money does facilitate other things......but its really that "something from within" that says "GET MOVING & Dont just sit there...& See the people for yourself"....As I was reading your post, I got reminded of this - "Hands that serve are holier than lips that pray"..So true,isnt it!? Will send you a mail shortly of something thats been in my mind for a long time but not getting the correct channel....I guess you maybe the one! do reply when u get some time....God Bless !

Tharini said... Best Blogger Tips

VG : That's a beautiful Baba quote. I shall wait for your mail. Write soon. :)

sole said... Best Blogger Tips

I have a few things in mind now, but we'll see what eventually works out. Before we had kids and were a couple we used to help an old couple (80 year old)do their groceries. We would buy them milk, bread and whatever they needed and drop it off at their place every week. Did this for a while until we bought our own house and then the kids followed and ever since we have just been consumed in our own world. Have had absolutely no time for anything else other than work, home and kids. But this post has made that thought come back to my head. Now its just a matter of me making a little effort and I'll start again. Don't know what it'll be,but I know it'll happen!

Sumod said... Best Blogger Tips

Hi,

I am one of Sreeram's school friends. Thanks to him for sharing your blog and lots of thianks to you for this wonderful piece of writing...

Thanks once again for sharing the information about Feed My Staring Children.

Actually I volunteer with an Organization called AID (Association for India's Development), and thought you might be interested to know about it... Here are some facts about AID..

* Charity Navigatior ranks us amongst the most efficient NGO, other famous ones in the category includes Redcross et al... http://www.charitynavigator.org/index.cfm?bay=search.summary&orgid=7135

* Swades, the movie is based on our founder Dr. Ravi Kuchimanchi and the electrification project is real one, done at Bilgaon in Maharashtra. http://www.hinduonnet.com/fline/fl2021/stories/20031024001208700.htm

* We support
643 projects in India, cordinating with 328 NGOs, in 30 different categories, with the help from 41 different chapters worldwide.http://www.aidprojects.org/indiamap.asp

If you are interested, please check out aidindia.org to know more, and check our http://chicago.aidindia.org/cms/ to know more on how you can volunteer with AID Chicago...

Anonymous said... Best Blogger Tips

Your post truly inspired, i made a donation to feed a child for a year and have resolved to not let any food go waste in my house. Thanks!
Priya

Monika said... Best Blogger Tips

that was a brilliant post and excellent info, i am going to make some donation

Anonymous said... Best Blogger Tips

Lovely,moving post Tharini.
I love how this organisation is actually involing people esp kids in helping the needy people instead of only taking money.

I admire your blog a lot and more I read your posts,the more your personality shines revealing the gem of a person that you are.

Hats off.
I am making a donation to this organisation and will look out for a volunteering opportunity where I can involve & educate my kids.

Warm regards,
Jyothy.

Tharini said... Best Blogger Tips

Sole : That sounds pretty fantastic. Good luck.

Sumod : Thank you! What a wealth of info. Thats for prividing in detail so all the readers can see it. I always loved Swades as a movie and its gratifying to know that it was real.

I checked out AidChicago and from a cursory look, they seem to have a lot of activities taking place in the city and suburbs which are quite far for me. I have joined their yahoogroups to get a clearer idea of what they do. Thanks so much for this lead, and God bless you for this work that you are doing, at such a young age!

Priya : That's great! And good luck on your resolve.

Monika : That's great. I'm sure they'd appreciate donations very much.

Hi Jyothy : Thank you for the kind words. Pls. pls let me know if you find something in your area. WOuld love to hear about it.

Neera said... Best Blogger Tips

You know Tharini there's a blind school for little girls just a couple of minutes away from where we stay and many times while walking past it, I have thought of going in and asking them how I can help because I have volunteered in a similar school before. A couple of times I have also spoken to Vansh, sharing my experiences and encouraged him to come inside with me even if its just to play for a while with the little girls. But he is slow to try anything new and hasn't agreed to it which is why I have left it at that. Even before I came to the part where you ask your readers to do something, I knew I was going to go there very soon. What a wonderful way to initiate the children to a sense of service and like u say help someone and have fun along the way. I'll write to u again once we make that trip. Thank you for the inspiration again.

Tharini said... Best Blogger Tips

Neera...that's wonderful. I wish you successful transition, overcoming our own inner inertia. And yes, do write back and share that moment..or post in on your blog. I am follwing it.

Doli said... Best Blogger Tips

Very beautiful post! I also participated in this when I was in Minneapolis. Unfortunately they have few locations and the place where I stay right now doesnt have a center :(

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