Friday, January 14, 2011

Meet Nic!

I am glad today was one of those days, when the boys wore all their woollies. Jackets, boots, hats, gloves, everything. I am glad today was one of those days when I wasn't still in my PJ's, thanks to my early morning stint at the gym. I am glad today was one of those days when my cell was fully charged. I am glad for all these things, because we got into an accident this morning. Right after we dropped R to the station and were heading back home, just at that point when we were making a slight right turn at a curve, we went over an invisible patch of ice and rammed hard into the car ahead of us. Because he too had skidded in the same way and gone over a median. If he hadn't been there, it would have been just a simple skid matter, with minimal damage to Buddy, but since he was there right ahead of me, with a nice little bumper sticker that read 'Change the way you see....not the way you look!', we had to rear end into him, and Buddy had to lose his bumper, hood and God knows what else inside.

But thank God for the fact that we were going slow....25 mph, and that we weren't going fast enough to get hurt, and that the guy we rammed into totally understood where I was coming from when I told him about the ice, and that there was a police car just at the corner, who was at the said position after having tended to 2 other accidents at the very same point, and he could get to us in under 2 min, with neither of us making a call on the phone. A bit of a bummer that I still got a citation and a ticket, from hitting him from the back. Too bad that Winkie needed to pee so badly, he was miserable for the entire 2 hours that we spent there. But thank God it wasn't snowing, and it wasn't windy or bitterly cold, but just the regular cold which you could get comfy with, with a pair of gloves and a hat. 

Thank God for the nice officer who stayed with us till the end, lending us the backseat of his car for the boys to stay warm in, entertaining them with conversation and questions, leaving me relaxed to make my calls, get things done. And one of the nicest things when you call the insurance company, is that they are not all business. They care enough to take the time to ask you....I'm so sorry about the accident. Are you okay? Was anybody hurt? Thank the Lord for that sweet tow truck guy, who gave me all the time I needed to clear stuff out of Buddy, before I handed him the keys to take him away. Thank goodness for the nice guy at the car rental, who told me on the phone....just get here Ma'am, and we'll take care of everything for you! What a nice thing that is to hear in an emergency! Thank goodness for R, who stayed calm and focused on the matter at hand, guiding me quietly through what I had to do next. Thank goodness for my own presence of mind, that pieced all the jumbled parts together, making a logical flow of it for staying on top of the situation. Thank goodness for that nice cheery wave, the driver of the car in front of me gave as he drove away. We parted on such nice terms. Of course, it may have been from the fact that it was not him getting the ticket, but why nitpick? :)

And thank goodness for this cute new little car that we have brought home. He's a Nissan Cube, the only other mid-size car there, covered entirely by the insurance, and whom we've aptly and promptly christened. Meet Nic everyone. We don't know how long he's staying, but you can be sure, I'll treat him real nice! :)

22 comments:

Deej said... Best Blogger Tips

OHMYGOD! Glad you three - and Buddy - are okay! You do crazy stuff to liven up yr life, huh? ;)

Altoid said... Best Blogger Tips

:) Thank Goodness all of you are safe and sound..bummer about the ticket though I do think if you went to court they'd be understanding and you might be able to get away with just paying court fees. Anyway, fingers crossed :). Love Nic...he looks suave and cool!

Tharini said... Best Blogger Tips

Thank you Deej...for including Buddy in that sentence. You are my best bud for saying that. He loves you.

Alt : Yeah R has full plans to haul me to court to contest it. :(

VJ said... Best Blogger Tips

glad to know all of u r ok !!!!

Tharini said... Best Blogger Tips

Thanks VJ. By God's grace, we totally are.

Vidhya said... Best Blogger Tips

Glad that you all are okay. On a lighter note, may be buddy and you liked that bumper sticker a lot, that you bammed onto it :) Sorry, bad joke.

Anonymous said... Best Blogger Tips

glad to know you and your little guys are ok. I always wonder how people commute (daily commute with kids)in such extreme weather. I am not comfortable driving alone with my 2.5 yrd old unless it is necessary. But that changed starting this year where I need to take him for therapies twice a week.

I had a colleague (with two kids under 10) who drove two hours one way two days week for almost 13 years just because they want to live in the coast. She commutes thru roads which gets flash floods and dangerous rock falls every year during rainy oregon weather.

CS

utbtkids said... Best Blogger Tips

Glad to know that you are all safe and staying positive :)

Rohini said... Best Blogger Tips

Good to know you guys are okay!

Nino's Mum said... Best Blogger Tips

WHOA. what a day! and trust you to see the best in it :) love. happy pongal!

mnamma said... Best Blogger Tips

Glad things turned out to be just fine T. Take care.. Nic is totally cute!!!

dipali said... Best Blogger Tips

God's grace is with you. Keep safe, always!

starry eyed said... Best Blogger Tips

Glad you're safe...and wonderful to read about the warmth and caring in the post...people kept their heads and focused on what was important. Hugs!

Kowsalya Subramanian said... Best Blogger Tips

T. Your attitude was a living example of that sticker that was there on the car. Glad to note that everything is manageable and that you are all fine. Hey, Nic is looking bright and cheery but Buddy always looked serene and calm to me :) But Poor guy he has something or the other during this season. Hope he comes back refreshed and rejuvenates his family too :) :)

Tharini said... Best Blogger Tips

Vidhya...not at all. I think that might even be partly true. But let's not tell anyone that! :)

CS : Except for the fact that we have to rush out the door in a scramble most days, I rather enjoy the drive and the respite. Its calming to get out in the middle of a busy morning, drive and listen to music. But of course, it is quite inconvenient in many ways too, as we have noted! :)

K : Thanks for saying that, and making me realise, yeah, I did do that, didn't I?

Thanks everyone. We miss Buddy terribly, but we love Nic!

noon said... Best Blogger Tips

Always see the post when you usually have moved on to the next post! :) Glad you are all OK. Thank God for that. I now think back and wonder how I drove in icy conditions with my car spinning a full circle. Now I feel nervous thinking about it. Take care. I am so relieved to see this cheery post. Thank God.

Vidhya said... Best Blogger Tips

Like your new profile picture. Winter blues, huh? :)

Tharini said... Best Blogger Tips

Vidhya...yeah! :)

Akhila said... Best Blogger Tips

Thank God you are all safe! Kudos to your positive attitude, to see the brighter side of everything in life!

B o o said... Best Blogger Tips

OMG! I am so glad that all of you are safe. I remember the last time something very similar happened to you (3 years back?) and thats when you introduced Buddy to us! :)

Neera said... Best Blogger Tips

Glad all of u r safe Tara! As also everything went smoothly afterwards.

rekhabaala said... Best Blogger Tips

have been reading your blog for sometime now! but commenting for the first time. Your sense of optimisim is indeed infectious! That you find cheer out of every situation is a lesson for all who read this blog. That there is a lot to be thankful in life for! Keep the cheer going :-)

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